The Steady Builder × The Curious Explorer compatibility (RCOAN × RCOEI)

The two codes point to the same side for Social, Emotionality and Organization and different sides for Accommodation and Inquisitiveness.

• However, codes alone cannot tell you the size of your scores or your actual preferences.
• When your choices differ, ask what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept.
• Also ask whether to try somewhere new or choose somewhere familiar.
• If your answers differ, try reflecting one person's preference this time and the other's next time.

When opinions differ or a reply is late, do not assume the reason lies in the other person's Private self or inner feelings.

• When your choices differ, ask directly what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept, then agree on a time to talk again.
• Social self codes alone cannot tell you either person's Private self.

When choosing a movie or a meal, first share the conditions each of you wants to keep.

• Also ask whether to try somewhere new or choose somewhere familiar.
• Hear each other's answers and choose one thing to try this time.