The Steady Builder × Calm Explorer compatibility (RCOAN × RCUEN)

The two codes point to the same side for Social, Emotionality and Inquisitiveness and different sides for Organization and Accommodation.

• However, codes alone cannot tell you the size of your scores or your actual preferences.
• Ask how much you would like to decide in advance about the time and place of your plans.
• Also ask what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept when your choices differ.
• If your answers differ, try reflecting one person's preference this time and the other's next time.

When opinions differ or a reply is late, do not assume the reason lies in the other person's Private self or inner feelings.

• Ask directly how much you would like to decide in advance about the time and place of your plans, then agree on a time to talk again.
• Social self codes alone cannot tell you either person's Private self.

For your next meeting, start by choosing together what needs to be fixed about the time and place.

• Also ask what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept when your choices differ.
• Hear each other's answers and choose one thing to try this time.