RCOEI tries to link people and finds meaning inside those connections.
RCUEN just exists like a ghost and tries to empty everything out.
On the surface there's little conflict, but really their frequencies are completely different.
Even when RCOEI tries to have a deep conversation, RCUEN only says “yeah, sure.”
Where you clash
RCOEI's private self is a desire to find feeling and meaning in everything, and RCUEN's private self tries to erase that feeling and meaning.
When RCOEI says “this moment is really special,” RCUEN thinks inwardly, “it's just a moment.”
RCOEI feels RCUEN's non-response is indifference, and RCUEN finds RCOEI's assigning of feeling a real burden.
Relationship playbook
Messages are rare, and RCUEN always seems far away.
No matter how much RCOEI tries to connect, RCUEN always tries to slip out of it.
Even with time together, it feels like being alone.
“When RCOEI says ‘you seem this empty, but I'll keep looking for something in you,’ and RCUEN accepts ‘then I'll just let you exist,’ the two can find a balance between meaning and meaninglessness.”