RLOEI and SCUAN both desire freedom, only in different ways.
When RLOEI's freedom of imagination and SCUAN's freedom of action meet, both can enjoy their own freedom.
SCUAN doesn't try to bind RLOEI, and RLOEI doesn't hold on to SCUAN.
When they're together, neither one's freedom crowds the other.
Where you clash
RLOEI is sunk in imagination, and SCUAN tries to leave in reality.
When RLOEI wants to confirm “we're together, right?”
SCUAN may say “now, yes, but later who knows.”
SCUAN's freedom can make even RLOEI's imagination powerless.
Their freedom can at times look like avoiding responsibility for each other.
Relationship playbook
When SCUAN experiences RLOEI's world of imagination together even briefly, and RLOEI blesses SCUAN's freedom, the two taste a completely free moment together.
“When RLOEI takes SCUAN's leaving as part of imagination, and SCUAN respects RLOEI's imagination, these two enjoy the most undisturbed freedom together.”