The Quiet Individualist × The Steady Builder compatibility (RLOEN × RCOAN)

The two codes point to the same side for Social, Organization and Inquisitiveness and different sides for Emotionality and Accommodation.

• However, codes alone cannot tell you the size of your scores or your actual preferences.
• If something unexpected happens, ask whether to talk right away or after a short break.
• Also ask what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept when your choices differ.
• If your answers differ, try reflecting one person's preference this time and the other's next time.

When opinions differ or a reply is late, do not assume the reason lies in the other person's Private self or inner feelings.

• If something unexpected happens, ask directly whether to talk right away or after a short break, then agree on a time to talk again.
• Social self codes alone cannot tell you either person's Private self.

If a reply is late, agree on when to talk again rather than guess why.

• Also ask what each can compromise on and what conditions need to be kept when your choices differ.
• Hear each other's answers and choose one thing to try this time.