

Both have turned their backs on the world. RLOEN can't let go of the rules of their room; RLUEN can't let go of freedom.
Both hate being bound by a relationship, so they meet with distance. Neither one tries to get too close, and neither one wants that. They look like they respect each other, but really both want to be alone. Even when they're together, they stay inside their own worlds. That distance can feel comfortable, but sometimes it feels like the relationship ended before it began.
When RLOEN and RLUEN come together, both drop into deeper solitude. There is no attempt to connect at all, so the relationship slowly stalls. When one tries to open their heart, the other has already locked the door. They're together and not facing each other. As time passes — "is this even a relationship?"
The most comfortable thing for the two is when neither violates the other. Separate dinners, separate nights, separate dreams. That separated state is what keeps the relationship going.
“For these two, someone has to reach a hand out first. Not full dependence, but moments of "are you here too?" Knowing you're not alone can become comfort instead of loneliness.”
Self-exploration aid. Not a basis for factual judgments.
Take the test to see your own matches.
Find your compatibility →