

The two types of sensitivity point in different directions. RLUAI collapses themselves for the other, while RLUEN needs no one.
RLUAI keeps approaching RLUEN, while RLUEN responds with indifference. RLUAI thinks "this person is lonely too" and keeps offering their hand, while RLUEN feels uncomfortable with that hand. RLUAI's empathy becomes a burden to RLUEN, and RLUEN's distance feels like rejection to RLUAI.
When RLUAI tries to give, RLUEN looks away first. RLUAI's pure heart feels like dependence to RLUEN, who thinks their freedom is being violated. RLUAI is repeatedly hurt, while RLUEN keeps running away. The more one approaches, the more the other withdraws.
The most comfortable moment is when RLUEN doesn't receive RLUAI's concern. RLUAI keeps a step back, while RLUEN wants to maintain that distance.
“For these two to be together, RLUAI must learn to control their heart, and RLUEN must sometimes accept the other's hand. Not all love is accepted, but not being accepted doesn't mean it's wrong. That's a lesson they learn together.”
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