

A warm party host (SCOAI) and an over-empathetic people person (SLUAI) both love people. They naturally get closer and try to understand each other deeply.
SCOAI can build easy relationships with anyone; SLUAI feels everyone's pain as her own. At first, this seems harmonious. SCOAI's warmth receives SLUAI's emotions, and SLUAI's empathy adds depth to SCOAI. When they both try to help someone, they make a perfect team. When they're together, both become the best version of themselves.
SLUAI is shaken by everyone's emotions. When SCOAI says "This is all we can do," SLUAI can't accept it. SLUAI's overwhelming feelings can become a burden to SCOAI, and SCOAI's realistic attitude can seem cold to SLUAI. When SLUAI emotionally breaks down, she feels even lonelier thinking SCOAI can't help enough.
They're closest when they care for someone together, and distance grows when that work ends. SLUAI's emotional exhaustion makes it hard for SCOAI to keep up.
“For these two to last, SLUAI has to understand that SCOAI can't completely fix her emotions. Instead, when SLUAI feels that SCOAI continues to care for her, she gradually learns to care for her own emotions.”
Self-exploration aid. Not a basis for factual judgments.
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