

A charisma CEO (SCOAN) and the eye of a whirlwind (SLOEN) both dominate the room. When they first meet, it's fun to see who's stronger.
SCOAN leads everyone with her vision. SLOEN stirs the room with her energy. At first, they're drawn to each other. SCOAN tries to channel SLOEN's unlimited energy into her vision, and SLOEN follows SCOAN's leadership. Together, they're really strong. But with two leaders in one space, it becomes a question of who holds control.
SLOEN hates following someone's plan. When SCOAN says "Follow my vision," SLOEN resists. When they need the same direction, they fight over who leads. SCOAN thinks SLOEN is uncontrollable and selfish, while SLOEN feels SCOAN is controlling. Over time, their energies just collide instead of sync.
Both want control, so they're only comfortable when one steps back. But the one who steps back (even temporarily) feels like they're losing.
“For these two to work, they have to understand two leaders can be one team. When SCOAN learns to channel rather than control SLOEN's energy, and SLOEN accepts SCOAN's vision as her own, they make the strongest partnership.”
Self-exploration aid. Not a basis for factual judgments.
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