SCOEI puts out their judgment quickly, and RCOAI filters that judgment once and then reinforces the details.
Both are curious and share a tidy grain, so when they dig into a new subject together the progress is fast.
Professionally they're the best-fitting duo.
That said, SCOEI voices an opinion first, and even when RCOAI thinks it's right, they agree a beat late.
Where you clash
SCOEI's private self has strong standards, so at a decision-making table they take RCOAI's silence as agreement.
RCOAI's private self, even when they have a different opinion in that moment, doesn't want to break the mood, so they let it go.
When RCOAI says belatedly after the meeting “actually, I saw that part differently,” SCOEI wonders “why didn't you say so then?”
Neither finds the other strange, but the same pattern repeats.
Relationship playbook
Reading and debating a new book together is the best time.
When SCOEI throws out a conclusion first, RCOAI attaches the details to it.
Afterward, the short message where RCOAI writes “today's talk was good” is the warmest thing to SCOEI.
“When RCOAI brings up first, just once, at the meeting ‘hold on, there's another angle too,’ SCOEI has the grain to take it gladly. Not reading silence as agreement is the growth direction for these two.”