

A free-spirited wanderer (SCUEN) and an over-empathetic party person (SLUAI) are both warm, but in completely different ways. SCUEN is warm while keeping distance, SLUAI is warm while diving deep. When they first meet, SLUAI is drawn to SCUEN's warmth.
SLUAI entrusts themselves to SCUEN's warmth. SCUEN receives SLUAI's feelings but maintains distance. SLUAI thinks "This person will love me deeply," but SCUEN is already preparing to leave. When SLUAI tries to go deeper, SCUEN pulls further away.
SCUEN's shadow side becomes even freer. SLUAI's shadow side keeps trying to love SCUEN. When SCUEN says "I'm going to leave," SLUAI cries "Don't leave me." But SCUEN is already prepared to depart.
SLUAI tries to keep the relationship deep. SCUEN constantly tries to find their freedom. This difference keeps hurting SLUAI.
“For these two to be together, SLUAI needs to respect SCUEN's freedom, and SCUEN can't completely ignore SLUAI's deep feelings. But if their core desires are different, this relationship will keep making one person lonely.”
Self-exploration aid. Not a basis for factual judgments.
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