Early on, SLOAI tries to keep up with SLUEI, who leads them.
Together new things are born.
They stimulate each other and dream together.
Where you clash
SLUEI's head is already off on the next thing.
Yesterday's idea is boring by now.
SLOAI gets anxious, feeling like SLUEI is walking away from the plans they made.
When SLOAI says, “we agreed to do this,” SLUEI answers, “that was yesterday's thinking.”
SLOAI has a hard time trusting SLUEI, and SLUEI feels SLOAI tying them down.
Relationship playbook
They are most at ease when something new is called for.
When SLUEI asks, “did you see this?” and SLOAI answers, “oh, that is good,” the two of them fall into step.
“It's good if SLUEI learns that not all ideas have equal value. Even better if SLOAI learns that SLUEI's capriciousness isn't a lack of sincerity; it's just how they are.”