Both are free spirits, comfortable from first meeting.
The Sunshine thinks “This person doesn't judge me,” and the Connector thinks “This person is comfortable.”
Neither of them plans; they just flow wherever.
New things aren't scary.
When the Sunshine's warmth and the Connector's curiosity meet, that place quickly becomes warm yet interesting.
Where you clash
They are sitting in a cafe together when SCUEI suddenly goes, “why does that even work that way?” and disappears into thought.
SCUAI asks, “what are you thinking about?” and SCUEI is already somewhere else.
SCUAI feels like “you are off in your head again,” and SCUEI feels like “why do you keep pulling me back to the present?”
What SCUAI wants is deep eye contact, and what SCUEI wants is room to explore.
Relationship playbook
Reading a book or watching a movie is the best of it.
SCUAI is satisfied just sharing the experience, while SCUEI takes time to make sense of it.
“When SCUAI stops judging what goes on in SCUEI's head and SCUEI stops brushing off SCUAI's present, the two can keep something steady and still fresh.”